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  1. Hi Deb,

    When I speak with newbies I also share my scathing response stories to help them learn how subjective this business is. Great post. Thanks for sharing.

  2. My favourite romantic setting is a castle in the Scottish highlands – visiting such a castle is on my ‘to-do’ list, as is writing a book set there.

    I’m glad you were able to use that scathing editor letter to learn and grow, and not have it derail your urge to write. I experienced something similar in the first contest I entered as an unpublished writer. Ouch! We also need to let scathing reviews roll of our backs because, as you said, enjoyment of a book is subjective and not everyone will love our writing – as incomprehensible as that may sound.

    Congratulations on the new book!

    1. Thanks, Luanna – it is painful for sure – both editor and agent comments and contest comments, but it is the way we learn. After a few days of gorging on chocolate and maybe a smidge of wine 🙂 then our brains assess and take what we need to make the writing better. And I know it doesn’t only happen to new writers, but seasoned authors, as well. A constant learning and growing cycle. If you write a book about a castle, I will be sure to read it. Thanks for visiting last night.

  3. Love your 100 pages every morning. I spent years doing that, too. And you’re right. Once the story starts perking in your brain, you can’t run away from it. LOL. This story sounds sooooo fun.

    1. Sue – so glad you could pop in. Actually – I wish it was 100 pages a day, but it was 100 words each morning (which usually ended up be several pages once I got going.) But I only had between 15 and 30 minutes in the morning, with my long commute. But by the time I got to the office, I jotted down notes for the next day. It kept the story front and center. I think my story is fun, but then I am a bit biased 🙂 Have a great evening!

  4. Delsora, Great piece of wisdom about “writer’s block” being a part of your writing process. I’d say it’s not exactly a block but a cue you need time out from this story so you can come back to it with fresh eyes. And yes, Zara does ask great questions!

    1. Judith – your are so right on it being a cue – well put! Sometimes our brains and creativity just need a break. And sometimes those breaks take longer than others 🙂 Glad you could join me today! I’ll see you on Nov 19 at Romancing the Genres.

  5. My favorite romantic setting is, of course, a lovely castle. (But I want it to be uncharacteristically Warm 🙂 ) I write medieval, so I couldn’t really say anything else, right? I enjoyed the interview and your point about getting through those negative comments from editor, agents, and reviewers . Best of luck

    1. Ha, Barbara, I totally agree about the WARM part of castles. Even with those big fireplaces ablaze, you know those stone walls emit a bit of brrrrr 🙂 But that is what fiction is all about, making castles warm. Thanks for checking in today – I think as authors, it’s mandatory to have a thick skin, or at least pretend to have one. It’s a tough life sometimes 🙂 But it helps if you can turn it around and make it into a lesson.

    1. Susan – thanks so much for hanging out with me today. That little red wagon episode was agonizing as a teen, but now that I look back on it (and recently found the story svaed in some of my mom’s boxes) it was quite a compliment to “be published.”

    1. Thanks, D.V. – I appreciate you stopping in. Zara always has such great questions which really make me think, so it is fun to come up with what I hope are entertaining answers.

  6. Zara – thanks so much for hosting me today. I look forward to hearing from readers about what their favorite romantic setting is. In the meantime I’m working on my Vermont holiday story.

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